🔹 Overall Flow and Suggestions
1. Introduction (Add Context and Focus) Before diving into the numbered sections, consider a short introduction like this:

The relationship between Joseph and Mary is often misunderstood or glossed over, yet it offers profound insight into how God defines marriage, covenant, and obedience. Their story isn't just about the birth of the Messiah—it’s about faith, responsibility, and God’s design for marriage outside cultural expectations.

🔹 Refinements Per Section
Section 1 – Marriage as a Covenant
This section is strong. You could add:

In a covenantal view of marriage, God is the witness, not just the community or a legal system. Joseph's action in taking Mary into his home (Matthew 1:24) completed the covenant, even without physical union—echoing how covenant always centers on commitment and purpose, not just tradition or intimacy.

Section 2 – Betrothal in Jewish Custom
Consider noting that betrothal was so binding that breaking it required a certificate of divorce (Matthew 1:19). That reinforces the point that Joseph and Mary were already legally united in the eyes of Jewish law.

You could also clarify:

The term “betrothed” is often misunderstood in English as merely engaged, but in Hebrew culture, it was already a legal status of husband and wife, just awaiting the final bringing-together into one household.

Section 3 – Joseph’s Role as Husband
You nailed this part. To add to it:

Joseph’s faith was tested, not by law, but by love and trust in God. His obedience defined him more than any ceremony. In taking on the role of protector and provider, Joseph fulfilled what YHWH designed husbands to be—not just by name, but in action and responsibility.

Section 4 – Oneness Without Physical Union
Great insight here. Perhaps you could add:

Oneness is deeper than flesh—it is about unity of purpose. Mary and Joseph were bound together in a mission from God, which required spiritual harmony more than physical union. Their marriage reflects how God's purpose can define a relationship more than physical acts.

Section 5 – God’s Authority in Declaring Them Husband and Wife
Yes! Maybe emphasize:

Their marriage was not man-made—it was God-ordained, initiated through angelic revelation and sealed by obedience. In a way, God Himself officiated their union.

Why No Recorded Wedding?
Solid points. You might add:

The absence of a recorded ceremony isn't silence—it’s a spotlight. The focus was shifted from ritual to obedience. Joseph and Mary’s union was sacred, not societal.

🔹 Mary’s Virginity: Different Perspectives
You give a fair and respectful summary of the different views. For clarity and balance, consider summarizing the three views in a side-by-side narrative comparison (not as a table):

View 1: Perpetual Virginity
Mary remained a virgin her entire life.

"Brothers" of Jesus were cousins or relatives.

Supported by early church fathers and traditions like the Protoevangelium of James.

Emphasizes her lifelong sanctity and singular mission.

View 2: Non-Perpetual Virginity
Mary had other children with Joseph after Jesus.

"Brothers" and "sisters" are biological.

Supported by plain readings of Matthew 13:55-56, Mark 6:3.

Emphasizes the normalcy of Joseph and Mary’s life after Jesus’ birth.

View 3: Joseph as a Widower
Joseph had children from a previous marriage.

Jesus’ siblings were step-siblings.

Preserves Mary’s virginity while accounting for Jesus' siblings.

Rooted in early traditions, though not found directly in Scripture.

You could conclude this section with:

While the Bible is clear that Mary was a virgin when Jesus was born, the rest is a matter of interpretation and tradition. What all sides agree on is her central role in God’s plan—and her example of trust, humility, and obedience.

🔹 Final Thoughts (Wrap-Up Section)
To end strong:

Joseph and Mary’s relationship is not just about marriage—it’s about surrendering to God’s design even when it breaks human expectations. Their marriage wasn't about romance or tradition. It was about covenant, calling, and courage.

Today, their example reminds us that God’s design for marriage is based on commitment, obedience, and purpose, not just outward forms or human customs. Whether or not Mary had other children, or whether Joseph was older, their union reflects a deeper truth: when two people walk in step with YHWH, they become one in ways the world may never fully understand.